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Because Death Matters

I offer a holistic care package for individuals who find themselves facing death. As a spiritual coach and death Doula, I can be present with you leading up to and during the period of transition. Support available but not essential is the option to embark on the 13th step program, reiki energy healing and guided meditation sessions. Also having worked 30 years in various healthcare sectors, I can confidently provide physical support through personal care and companionship.

In 2004 I begun my own spiritual journey with meditation becoming a Course in Miracles student and qualifying as a Usui Reiki Master. These daily practices have enabled me to live from a deeper space of truth and presence. In my experience, it’s important to complete spiritual work with someone who is holding a high level of consciousness free from fear shame and guilt. The presence of consciousness that rests in a space of acceptance, love and joy means you will be able to practice and maintain a deeper level of surrender that supports death

The 13 steps program

We admitted we were powerless over dying—that our lives had become unmanageable.
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to this Power as we understood it.
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
Admitted to this Power, ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Were entirely ready to have this Power remove all these defects of character.
Humbly asked this Power to remove our shortcomings.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
Sought through spiritual disciplines to improve our conscious contact with this Power as we understood It, asking for knowledge of its will for us and the strength to carry that out.
Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Understanding that this Power is pure consciousness and gives us access to all dimensions, therefore creating an openness within us to explore life beyond death.

The final step program

The fear of death is not uncommon and I have found that delving into and surrendering underlying often unconscious beliefs, fears and attitudes will hopefully bring a sense of empowerment and peace. The 13th step program is an adaptation of the traditional 12 step program. Typically these programs are associated with powerlessness regarding addiction. However here we make the focus of our work powerlessness around death.

The 13 steps program explained

This involves undoing all the conditioning that makes us believe that everything we see is all there is. This then keeping us trapped with our identification with the body. It also involves overcoming all fears that originate from exploring beyond what we know. We can establish new connections to help us transition into the afterlife. Many individuals have already found connections with ascended masters or multidimensional beings. Whether one believes that these beings are another aspect of oneself or independent entities is irrelevant. What matters is finding what works best for each person. The beauty of Step 13 lies in the fact that one has the freedom to choose how and with whom they want to guide them or focus on their final step.